When it comes to addiction, pride makes you your own worst enemy. Pride leads people to numb emotional and physical pains with drugs rather than heed their bodies’ “You aren’t invincible” warnings. Pride keeps people from admitting that their “casual” drug use is turning into dependence or addiction. Pride convinces people who
do realize they have a problem that they should at least be able to fix everything without help—sometimes leading to home-detox attempts with deadly consequences.
Pride can continue to hobble you even after you get yourself to a detox center (or find yourself there in the wake of a
family intervention). When admissions counselors ask personal questions about your family history, addiction habits and other problems, your first reaction may be, “What business of theirs is all that? I didn’t come here to be dissected and humiliated. I just want to get detoxed and get back to a normal life.”
Actually, “just getting detoxed” and rushing back to “normal life” is the worst possible approach to treating addiction. Medical professionals have known for over 20 years that without attention to individual needs and deeper concerns, fewer than 30 percent of patients discharged as “clean” are able to sustain abstinence for the next three months, let alone to the one-year anniversary. Not that
relapse, per se, means treatment has “failed”—around 40 percent of people treated for alcoholism and as many as 85 percent of people treated for opiate addiction will slip at least once post-detox, and many
get back on the wagon and continue on to long-term sobriety. But clearing your body of physical drug cravings without bothering to change anything else in your life is like confirming your lung cancer is in remission and then going back to smoking two packs a day.
“All those questions” you can expect to be asked during the treatment center admissions process really are for your own good—to protect you from physical dangers during detox
and to begin mapping your journey toward a sober and fulfilling future. In fact, if a treatment center
doesn’t ask many questions, that may be a major red flag—an indication that the center is lacking in
up-to-date methods and qualified personnel.
Here are the most common categories of questions—and the “whys” behind them—according to our own Director of Admissions Rian McGuire.