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While it’s not a good idea to get involved in a new relationship during your first few months of sobriety—you have enough life transitions and adjustments to cope with right now—if you’re already in a committed relationship, taking steps to rekindle and nurture the romantic element can be a major help in staying sober:
One caveat: “romance” is not sex, or any other aspect of your relationship that emphasizes the physical. That physical element is “passion,” and while it certainly has its place in committed relationships, it’s easy to start using it as a substitute for real romance. Romance is a matter of:
If you’re recovering from addiction, the problems with overemphasizing the “heavy” side of physical contact will likely sound familiar: It makes everything all about feeling intensely good in short bursts. It avoids trying to understand deep issues or think about past and future. It does nothing to nurture understanding, caring or personal development—indeed, it makes it easy to neglect these vital relationship aspects. Ultimately, being all passion and no romance does more harm than good.
To make genuine romance a part of your successful sobriety journey:
Whether you’re researching for yourself or a loved one, Beach House can help. We understand that this is a serious time in your life and that the treatment center you choose matters. We want you to feel comfortable and empowered to make the right decision for yourself, a friend, or a family member. This is why a counselor is waiting and available to answer your questions and help put your mind at ease regarding the next steps. Many of the staff at Beach House have walked in your shoes. If you feel you’re ready or want more information about how to help a loved one, we can help today. You can also learn why we are voted the #1 rehab for addiction treatment in Florida.
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